你想想，两个来自不同家庭，不同背景男女想要终身厮守，可能生成的问题很多，年龄只是其中一个，而且是最小的一个，绝不会比习惯不同，个性不同，人生目标不同所带来的问题更大，偏偏有些人喜欢夸大它，觉得女生一定要比男生小，甚至有的人还会迷信，觉得小叁六、九岁不好。
珈- -因以为，像这种受限於「偏见式条件」的人，很难得到幸福。什麽是「偏见式条件」呢？很多人喜欢设置择偶的条件，「一定要双眼皮」，「不能戴 眼镜」，「一定要身高一米八」，「体重不能超过几磅」，这种外在条件的限制，珈–因称它做「偏见式条件」，因为这些条件完全和爱情无关，纯粹是个人偏 见。
当然，珈–因同意每个人都会 有偏好，有些人喜欢丰满的女生，有些人喜欢高瘦的男生，这很正常也很合理。但是如果你爱上了一个人，两 人情投意合， 相处愉快，你会因为他比你设置的标准矮叁公分而和他分手吗？要找一个高的男人很容易，但要查找和你两情相悦的男人可不容易啊！怎麽会本末倒置，因为身高或 年龄这种和爱情无关的条件而牺牲掉幸福呢？这不是偏见是什麽？所以珈–因觉得，受限於偏见式条件的人，绝对和幸福无缘！
He look “sell fish” yet he is selfish…Out of middle of nowhere, there goes a trip to Pulau Redang. Hmm…I wonder he considers himself an organizer, co-organizer or just some bozo acting a hero? Anyone can tell me?
If you have such a thought, do voice up during the discussion and let everyone decide. Don’t pretend like your plan is going to suit all of us. You know what, to me, you do not respect anyone of us. For that particular reason, I don’t think I need to do so to you as well. It’s just too much and I will be the one to voice it up if no one dares to.
For some reason, I feel like you are trying to screw everything up. When everyone is trying to make an effort to foster a better relationship among our course mates, there comes a jerk like you. Trying to make your plan, your own plan and split SMM guys from participating the same graduation trip. You might think that it’s way to reduce budget, but the way I see is that you are organizing a “Graduation Trip by Gang”.
My advice to you, don’t try to be a hero from the back. There are heaps of chances that you can prove yourself to be good in organizing something everyone appreciates rather than acting like a fool at the back. You have a thought, voice up like a man. I am sure that the organizers can find something that suits everyone at the end.
I do not understand why …
You do not attend the meeting when we decide where to go? You don’t feel welcomed or what?
You do not say out your preference and you go and create a substitute plan?
You don’t feel satisfied and don’t aprreciate what the organizers did? They have spent days if not weeks to make contact, paid the extra bill and went the extra mile to gather the informations….Now what, you trying to act like you are so noble just because your plan doesn’t clash with the original huh….
I understand that budget is a problem for everyone including myself…but people choose to voice out their problem…their dissatisfication…rather than hide your feelings and substitute people’s idea…haha
Well….redang is a good place, cheap and everyone can afford…..in that sense, I guess many can make it….a more realistic graduation trip I would say….hey…but not from you….WHY can’t you discuss with the organisers first?
Don’t you think that would be better, than splashing cold water now on their face?
It is like opening up a Giant beside your buddy’s small kedai runcit ler….who will care to buy a soap for RM2.00 when they can get RM1.30 in Giant…
Who will / or can fork out the extra money to go the extra mile…since there is a cheaper option le?
Again…I must apologise if what I wrote annoyed you….but this is my bloody blog…I have the owner’s right to crap here….
Here comes walan eh 2…as promised
Ah yeau sent me one…but look alike le…both like acrobatic stunt…
OMG>..korean…
一天，老师叫我们写作文，我的志愿。我写。。。
我的志愿是嫁个有钱的老公，做老板娘。。
writing in mandarin is very hard…walan eh…I personally think that her ambition is very realistic…haha
Today, I went to Stadium JB to watch this Asian Badminton Championship..The ticket costs me RM15…student price 50% ler..
The third match was the men singles final between Malaysia’s Lee Chong Wei and Thailand’s Boonsak ponsanak or what…
Obviously Lee Chong Wei is the better player here. He dominated the match. He has the pace and powerful and correct angle smash. Boonsak is good but not better….haha
But this is the very first time that I watched Malaysian plays in an international badminton match. LIVE!..The crowd was shouting ‘Malaysian Boleh’ all the while…giving the support to Lee….I was one of them also…
This is really the first time I feel the power of the phrase ‘Malaysia Boleh’..well…maybe I should watch more live matches….not too much EPL…haha
Well…Lee got the support he needed and won the match eventually in straight sets. Very impressive playing style. The crowd enjoyed watching him play. I think the singles coach from China has taken its effect on the national team…people call him Devil Coach…or what..
I would like to say this is the very right attitude / method to show Malaysia Boleh. Not by making the biggest cakes, roti canai, teh tarik or even building the world highest building etc….
Sports is always the good way to promote a country. Let’s look at Brazil….people will automatically link it to football…Samba football…they even created a football playing style….
Malaysia can do the same…government should put more efforts / give supports to players before they are famous…that is the time when they really needed the money/support.
Not only after they become world champion, or going on the way to be world champion, baru kerajaan bagi ni lah, bagi tu lah…right?
I have known many potential players who can make a big splash in international stage. They have to quit their sports to concentrate either on study or started working. Sportsman is not earning the enough money to even support their livings. THey have no choice…See how Malaysia lose out to Australia in the recent Commonwealth. Not that Australian is smarter, but their government gives the full power support to their atheletes….let them have no worries and concentrate on training…that’s how things supposed to work….
Government…let’s do something….who knows one day..Malaysia can started winning goal medals in Olympics….
I must admit that I used a lot of foul language while expressing my thoughts….I am so sorry to learn that it is actually irritating to read these….yeah….I must stop myself for continue doing so….
Hey…I received this in my email….but the address is untraceable..i think he/she purposely created an email account to send this..smmtrip@yahoo.com….but its an interesting read…bear in mind that I did not create this myself….It is really nothing near my writing style if you are familiar with this blog…OK…one more thing..don’t take offense if what you did are mentioned…
“Hmm…who the hell just sms me”? When I check on my phone is the message says: “Can u go graduation trip to Bali with minimum budget of 600 not include eat? If not, let me know ur budget n the place u don like to go. Reply asap. Show ur support”. When I read this sms, I knew that things were going wrong once again in our so-called “SMM Graduation Trip”.
I rather say it as Self Achievement Graduation Trip. Well, as for what I concern, I notice that opinions and ideas were flooding during the discussions period. From Phuket to Bali, from Bali to Sabah and Sarawak. Now what? Further ahead? No one will know what is the up coming plan and it may changes any time. Obviously, you don’t wanna go Phuket, u try to master people’s mind to change the initial plan. You don’t wanna go Bali, you voice out your opinion. And with 50 over people in the course, you might get loads of opinions and thoughts. Worse case scenario, no one is responsible for what they said.
An idealist will want to have the best with the cheapest price. Probably like your boss when you work later. But yet, in a real world, no such thing will happen. So please take a note. You do not have a passport and you are looking forward to make a group passport, I think you are dreaming. Some people say he/she doesn’t think of spending RM1000 for beaches…Well, you know the difference why you want to live in a bungalow rather than an old flat? You know the difference between RM2.50 chicken rice and RM5.00 chicken rice. To be very honest, it’s about stature, the standard, the beauty and more…I just don’t know how you guys justify things. Look around you, think…look something beyond what’s inside the box.
With no offence, I presume that everyone graduating is at least 22-24 years of age. Well, I pity for those who still fail to make their own decision and yet dependent of their guardians to give permission on something they are going to do…you guys know what I mean la. But I am not persuading you to breach what is not allowed.
For those who are giving opinions for organizing and looking for packages and suitable locations, credits should be given. However, one thing I need to stress out is that the whole concept is for all course mates to spend the final last few days together and it’s a farewell for every one of us. Please don’t take advantage of this trip for self-achievement purposes…think about all. Organizers, again, I would stress that please take good care of your planning in terms of budget and time management. As for my experience, I don’t believe that RM 1000 can make things possible for S&S. Maybe you can figure out a good way, but hopefully it’s workable.
Last but not least, think about everyone and do not be selfish. We do need co-operations from all course mates and your support what make life in UTM worthwhile.
Regards,
Anonymous
Find a guy,
Hei…It’s april fool…
I guess those pass by the Skudai-Pontian Highway would have noticed that there are road upgrading going on…I heard they are upgrading the two-lanes to a 3/4-lanes road….
But how could they so stylishly destruct the previous decorations by the roadside…?
That has caused at least a few millions….taxpayers’ money…
That’s why…another government failure….
Try to elect somebody who has a better vision lar….better planning at least….and not some penghulu UmNi or pakcik or makcik….hire those with professional knowledge…I mean elect….haiyo..
It was like throwing taxpayer’s money into the sea man…fark.
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